1. When you are going on a date where you really think you may end up kissing, always opt for a little extra on the preparation. Make sure you brush, floss, and rinse well so that it is enjoyable for them, and also so you can be more confident. You may also want to tuck some gum, sugar-free mints, or listerinestrips in your pocket or purse so that you'll stay fresh even after dinner.
4 .When they are giving you the go-ahead by kissing you back, you can gently put your hand behind their neck or head and pull them in a little closer. You can gauge how they want to be kissed by how they kiss. Start slowly at first, and really savor the moment pausing every few seconds.
5. You can open your eyes a little now and see if they have theirs closed or open, and do the same. Especially when you pause or pull away for a moment it is a good time to look them in the eyes and smile. You can take your fingertips, or the back of your hand, and touch their cheek or hair. Hold them tightly, wherever you are holding, to let them feel that you are really into them.
6. If you have been kissing gently for a few moments just with your lips, you can start to lick their lips a little and see if they respond by kissing more with their tongue. If so, this is when you can really impress them. Move your tongue slowly but deliberately deeper along their tongue, not too hard, but a little deeper. If you move your face opposite of theirs, so your faces make an X of sorts, this is perfect for deeper kisses. You can then push your tongue a few times along theirs and then stop, and lick all the way around their lips, and then push your tongue in again deeper. This is a great trick for mixing it up and keeping things unexpected, which is really important.
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2. Make sure you have privacy and are not in public. This is more a kiss for when he/she has already invited you in after a date. If you are standing on the porch or in view of anyone else, always try to keep the kisses very short and sweet.
3 .If they look at you and smile while moving closer, that is a good cue that they are open for a kiss. (If they pull away or say they want to wait a little longer, always respect that and say that they just look so wonderful, but that you will wait as long as they want.) You can always test by moving a little closer first, and if they do not back away, then try a kiss on the cheek or a quick kiss on the lips. If they continue, or stay very close waiting, go ahead and try another slow, gentle kiss with your lips still together.
3 .If they look at you and smile while moving closer, that is a good cue that they are open for a kiss. (If they pull away or say they want to wait a little longer, always respect that and say that they just look so wonderful, but that you will wait as long as they want.) You can always test by moving a little closer first, and if they do not back away, then try a kiss on the cheek or a quick kiss on the lips. If they continue, or stay very close waiting, go ahead and try another slow, gentle kiss with your lips still together.
4 .When they are giving you the go-ahead by kissing you back, you can gently put your hand behind their neck or head and pull them in a little closer. You can gauge how they want to be kissed by how they kiss. Start slowly at first, and really savor the moment pausing every few seconds.
5. You can open your eyes a little now and see if they have theirs closed or open, and do the same. Especially when you pause or pull away for a moment it is a good time to look them in the eyes and smile. You can take your fingertips, or the back of your hand, and touch their cheek or hair. Hold them tightly, wherever you are holding, to let them feel that you are really into them.
6. If you have been kissing gently for a few moments just with your lips, you can start to lick their lips a little and see if they respond by kissing more with their tongue. If so, this is when you can really impress them. Move your tongue slowly but deliberately deeper along their tongue, not too hard, but a little deeper. If you move your face opposite of theirs, so your faces make an X of sorts, this is perfect for deeper kisses. You can then push your tongue a few times along theirs and then stop, and lick all the way around their lips, and then push your tongue in again deeper. This is a great trick for mixing it up and keeping things unexpected, which is really important.
7 .The key to remember is to feel and be sensitive to what they respond best to, and do that more often and expand mostly in that direction.
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